Curiouser.Life
Curiouser: You want MORE out of your love, sex, romance—everything. You're curiouser.
Curiouser.Life was born out of my personal journey and the idea that more joy, love, and success comes with a sense of curiosity about the world, and a desire to know more about life and the people we encounter in it. 
Who am I? 

Hi! I'm Heather. My friends call me Nookie. I'm an entrepreneur, a lover of life, a partner to the most amazing man I've ever met, an avid reader, a hiker, a cancer previvor, a traveler, a cook, and more. 

I also have ADHD, and I'm an author, an educator, and a coach. 
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Curiouser.Life was born out of my personal journey and the idea that more joy, love, and success comes with a sense of curiosity about the world, and a desire to know more about life and the people we encounter in it. 
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I'm thrilled to have you here! 

I'm guessing you're the kind of person who wants more out of life than you have right now, no matter where you are, and that makes you my favorite kind of person. 

Let's connect! Right now, Curiouser.Life is mostly active on Facebook and YouTube, and I'll be adding more connection options as time allows. You can also text our team anytime at 1-919-299-1108.
I go live every now and again on YouTube talking about boundaries, love, and romance. 
Take No Sh*t! Build better relationships through discovering, creating and maintaining healthy boundaries in three (sometimes five) simple steps.
My newest project is Take No Sh*t! Build better relationships through discovering, creating and maintaining healthy boundaries in three (sometimes five) simple steps.  

I officially started this book in August 2022, as a passion project—a gift I gave to myself for my birthday. 

I started by writing the book live with over 100 people following along and sharing feedback and questions and ideas, and had NO IDEA how much the creation would affect my life. 

Want a sample? It's 100% FREE to download, with NO email or sign up!

Of course, I'm hoping you'll LOVE the book and want to know more, so there are links in the book back to this page, so you can find/follow me and get updated on updates and new versions of the book. 
Take No Sh*t! Build better relationships through discovering, creating and maintaining healthy boundaries in three (sometimes five) simple steps.
What about audio? I'm working on it. I'm recording the book myself, and I'm using ElevenLabs' text-to-speech and speech-to-speech to help the sample conversation dialog really stand out! 
Take No Sh*t! Build better relationships through discovering, creating and maintaining healthy boundaries in three (sometimes five) simple steps.

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Take No **** Daily Boundaries Journaling App

The Take No Sh*t mobile app is designed to empower you through daily boundaries journaling. Discover a new level of self-awareness, create healthy loving relationships, reducing drama and conflict, and live your most authentic life.

The Take No Sh*t mobile app provides a self-reflective and inspiring journaling experience, making it easier than ever to establish and maintain healthy personal boundaries. With just a few taps, you can reflect on your day, set priorities, and focus on your growth journey.

But that's not all. You can choose to share your journal entries in our vibrant public feed, connecting with like-minded individuals who are also on their path to self-improvement. Engage in meaningful conversations, gain insights from others, and learn valuable lessons from their experiences. Alternatively, if you prefer to keep your thoughts private, our app offers the option to maintain the utmost privacy.

Imagine the impact of daily journaling on your life – increased self-awareness, reduced stress, improved decision-making, and a profound sense of fulfillment. 

Download Take No Sh*t and unlock the power of daily boundaries journaling. Your future self will thank you.

Take No ***! Daily Boundaries Journaling App
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...for what you want and need in a relationship, and start creating healthy loving relationships, reducing drama and conflict, and living your most authentic life instead.

There IS a better way!

In my step-by-step Take No Shit Workshop, you’ll learn how to stop constantly fighting for what you want and need in your relationships and to let go of the fear of rejection. 
If you're ready to leave those unhealthy patterns of behavior that have affected your life and your relationships for years behind, take the first step. 
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I absolutely LOVE working with people and seeing fast change, so I've opened up a few slots in my schedule specifically for people who are ready to commit to building a better life for themselves. 

"Are you a therapist?"

No. I’m not a therapist. 

I don't have a 4-year degree in psychology (or any degree, actually).

I'm just a woman who knew that something wasn't going right in my relationships, and found way to fix it—all of it. 

You read that right. 

Better boundaries are something I discovered for myself (didn't even have a name for them) after a marriage of craptaculous boundaries where I paid the price in emotional abuse, shitty self-confidence, and all my money.

I had to. 

  • I was living to please others because I thought that was love. 
  • I was putting up with hurtful comments because they were from people who loved me. 
  • I was giving too much—more than I had. 
  • I was saying "yes," because I had a hard time saying "no." 
  • I was putting others' needs and wants above my own, sacrificing to make things work. 

To make them love me. 

And it didn't work. Not in the way I was told it would. 

And not in the way I wanted.

These days, I have the best partner I could have ever imagined (better, even!), and I not only have solid boundaries myself, but I encourage them in the people I engage with in my life (my partners, my friends, and my colleagues). After all, I believe that boundaries are THE MOST IMPORTANT relationship skill. 

Now's my chance to share with you what I've learned through these years.

Most people don't need therapy to do this. They just need the tools and a step-by-step plan!

I'll build that step-by-step plan with you and for YOU, based on your life and relationship goals.