May 7: Scott Galloway says no one would date him. I did.
The other day, I walked up to my partner of over a decade—the best human I’ve ever known—and I pinched his butt.
Not hard.
Just enough to get his attention.
He turned, raised an eyebrow.
“What was that for?”
I said, “I needed to know if you’re real… or if I am.”
Cue eye roll.
Cue laughter.
Cue me explaining:
He’s 5’10”.
Which, according to the Bro-vosphere, makes him completely undateable.
Because the gospel of Daterminism™ says no woman would ever choose a man under six feet.
Nada.
Get out, loser.
And yet… here we are.
Living together.
Laughing.
Loving.
Pinching butts in the kitchen.
So either I’m hallucinating him from a padded cell somewhere—a very affectionate padded cell—
Or the internet is once again full of shit.
(Shocking, I know.)
See, what these tox-gooroos won’t tell you is that their “facts” are cherry-picked.
And their conclusions?
Garbage fire.
One of them once said, “Women would rather die alone than date a man under six feet.”
Okay, Scott.
Cool story.
Except when actual women were asked—like, say, 100,000 of them in a dating group—
98% said they’ve willingly dated a man under six feet.
On purpose.
With advance notice.
Without coercion or hostage negotiation.
So what gives?
Well… we’re up against a powerful force.
Daterminism.
That lazy, sexy lie that tell you:
“If you’re not tall enough, rich enough, jacked enough, or alpha enough… you’re doomed.”
And sure, it feels nice at first.
Because it means you don’t have to try.
You can blame your height.
Blame the apps.
Blame the “females.”
But you know what it doesn’t do?
Get you absolutely loved.
Now, I’m not saying looks don’t matter.
Or that everyone’s preferences are irrelevant.
But I am saying this:
When a woman loves you for who you are—
really sees you—
she stops giving a fudge about how many inches you’re missing from the top of your head.
She’s more concerned with what you’re packing in your brain, your heart, and your integrity.
And if you’re sick of dating rules written by rage-bros in backwards baseball caps?
If you want connection, passion, and real intimacy—without trying to become a fake alpha cartoon?
I’ve got you.
Book a free 15-minute Big Ask call.
No pressure.
No BS.
Just you and me, solving something that actually matters.
https://my.curiouser.life/15-minutes-big-ask
Rev Heather, aka Nookie, LUQ
https://my.curiouser.life
+1-855-712-5433 (toll-free)
P.S. What “truth” have you heard about dating that makes you want to throw your phone into the sun?
Hit reply and tell me. I’ve probably heard it. I’ve definitely mocked it. And I absolutely would love to roast it with you.