January 26: Yes, I call out the behavior. No, I don’t hate you.

A longtime follower recently left this on one of my YouTube videos:

"You really don't like men much it seems. Yet you claim to want to help them. I actually believe you want to help, I’m just not sure ‘man bad woman good’ is helpful.”

Whew.

Okay.

Let’s talk about that.

First: I f*cking LOVE men.

Always have.

My entire one-on-one practice is built around helping good-hearted men find real love without losing themselves in the process.

What I don’t love?

The behaviors—often encouraged by manosnore “gurus”—that sabotage your connections, your confidence, and your chances at real intimacy.

There’s a big difference between saying:

“Men are awful-meany-poopy butts” (which I don’t)

...and

“Men sometimes do this thing that hurts their chances of love” (which I do).

It’s also a whole other universe between:

“Some women do this more than men”

...and

“ALL WOMEN ARE [insert flaming trash adjective here].”

See the difference?

If you don’t—or won’t—I’m not be your person.

And that’s okay.

I’m not here to change your mind.

I’m here to share mine.

To work with men who are ready to step away from the Bromeopathy, the Sulk-ernet, the He-Man Woman Haters League™...

...and into actual connection, actual clarity, actual change.

And if that’s not what you want?

Bless and block.

I’ll even hold the door.

But if you do want that—

If you want your dating life to stop feeling like it was designed by a YouTube villain with a podcast—

Then I’d love to hear your Big Ask.

Book a free 15-minute call with me right here:

We’ll talk about what’s getting in the way of love—real love—and what it would look like to start shifting that.

Not with gimmicks.

Not with shame.

Not with beard oil and a fresh dose of “alpha.”

Just you. And what you really want.

Rev Heather, aka Nookie, LUQ
https://my.curiouser.life
+1-855-712-5433 (toll-free)

P.S. I’d love to hear your thoughts on this—do you think most people understand the difference between critiquing behaviors and hating a gender? Or is nuance just too spicy these days?

Hit reply and tell me.