September 25: Two in October, one in November. That's it.

September 25, 2026•2 min read
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I haven't sent a promotionally-focused email in a while.

Not because I don’t want to meet new people, but because I've been full.

Booked solid for months, working clients through breakups, boundaries, and the occasional gloriously messy nonmonogamy situation.

Whatever time was left, I spent writing, running events, and making art.

That's shifting, a little.

I have two spots open in October and one in November.

So what do I actually do?

I work in love, sex, romance, and kink, with people across the gender and sexuality spectrum, wherever they're stuck.

Sometimes that looks like:

Rewriting a dating profile that's been quietly sabotaging someone’s chances.
Easing the on ramp into nonmonogamy, or smoothing the road for people already living it.
Using art and creative expression to help someone find their way back to themselves.
Mapping the "get back out there" plan after a breakup that flattened someone.
Piecing a couple back together, sometimes after years of distance, sometimes after divorce paperwork that never quite finished.

I'm also a certified neurodivergent coach.

That matters, because I'm neurospicy myself, and I see this stuff through a different lens than most people teaching it.

Here's the part that actually explains why what I do works, though.

I only take clients who fit.

You get a free 15-minute consult (it usually runs long), you bring me one real question, and we talk it out.

I'm not pitching you in that call.

I'm listening for whether we match.

If we don't, you won't hear an offer, you'll just have had a genuinely useful conversation.

Some people book it for exactly that, never become clients, and that's completely fine with me.

If you've got a real question about your love life, your sex life, or the tangled place where they overlap, and you want fifteen honest minutes with me before winter sets in, this is the window.

Book your Big Ask consult here → https://my.curiouser.life/15-minutes-big-ask

Talk soon,

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Rev Heather, aka Nookie, LUQ
https://my.curiouser.life
+1-855-712-5433 (toll-free)

P.S. If you could get the answer to one big relationship question tomorrow, what's the one question you'd actually bring?

Hit reply and tell me. I read every single one.

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