February 19: Tonight, we commit crimes. š
Iāve been teaching this class since 2015.
I wrote The Big Book of A$s in 2022.
Which means I have been talking about butts for a very long time.
And do you know what Iāve learned?
Pleasure is political.
Seriously.
Did you know that at one time every single state in the United States had laws against sodomy?
As recently as the 1960s, every state still had anti-sodomy laws on the books, even if they werenāt often enforced.
And today?
Alabama, Florida, Idaho, Louisiana, Mississippi, North Carolina (where I live), South Carolina, Utah, and Virginia still technically outlaw anal intercourse.
Yes. Even between married people.
In their own homes.
Kansas, Missouri, Oklahoma, and Texas prohibit sodomy between same-sex partners only.
So tonight?
Iāll be encouraging you to commit crimes.
(Kidding. Mostly.)
In fact, if you donāt live in one of those states, I might jokingly suggest a little travelā¦just to check something off your bucket list.
Or is that your fucket list? š
But hereās the real point:
For decadesācenturiesābodies have been policed. Pleasure has been shamed. Curiosity has been framed as deviance.
So when you choose to learn your bodyā¦
When you explore safely, consensually, joyfullyā¦
When you say, āActually, I get to decide what feels goodā¦ā
Thatās a tiny act of rebellion.
And Iāve learned a lot in the last decade.
What works.
What absolutely does not.
How to make it pleasurable as a single person.
How to make it deliciously connective as a couple.
How to do it without fear, without shame, and without landing yourself in the ER with a story you never wanted to tell.
Tonightās free workshopāLearn To Love Analāis where I pass that on to you.
With humor.
With facts.
With zero judgment.
And yes, with a twinkle in my eye.
Join us on YouTube Live: https://curiouser.me/ltla_yt (And while youāre there? Subscribe so you never miss a thing.)
Or click here to register for reminders, and get access to the Facebook and Private Workshop links (in case you donāt want comments on butt stuff on your YT nameā¦)
You deserve pleasure that feels informed, empowered, and entirely yours.
Letās make some sexy rebellion together.

Rev Heather, aka Nookie, LUQ
https://my.curiouser.life
+1-855-712-5433 (toll-free)
P.S. Iām genuinely curious: Whatās the biggest myth youāve heard about anal play? Or the biggest hesitation you have?
Hit reply and tell me. I promise Iāve heard it all⦠and I answer without blushing.