August 17: The question that's wasting your time (and mine)…

Published on: 17/08/2026

I gave it up for New Year’s in 2018.

SELF-ish Love

August 13: Two tools so nobody uses you again…

Published on: 13/08/2026

This is the framework that actually got me here.

BoundariesSELF-ish Love

Aug 11: Autonomy is NOT the same as distance.

Published on: 11/08/2026

If this makes you a little uncomfortable, that's worth exploring.

NonmonogamySELF-ish Love

July 29: What Calypso asked Odysseus (and what I tell my clients)…

Published on: 29/07/2026

I pulled out my phone mid-movie to write this down.

BoundariesSELF-ish Love